Birth Preferences
Birth Preparation Holly Springs, NC

If you are expecting, then you have probably heard about making a birth plan. Although I don’t love the word “plan” when thinking about labor and delivery, I do think there is great value in taking time to understand the possible interventions during childbirth and early newborn care so that you can develop a list of “birth preferences.”
I encourage patients to make a Vaginal Birth Preferences list as well as an Unplanned C-Section Preferences list. As we prepare at the end of pregnancy for what we hope will happen during the birth of our baby, we have to realize that childbirth is an unpredictable experience that can very quickly move outside of our control. Whether it is your first birth or sixth, each pregnancy, labor, delivery, and postpartum experience is unique. Creating a hierarchy of interventions that you prefer is often a helpful way to adapt to the unexpected situations that may arise. For example, imagine that you are a first-time mom and your goal is to have an unmedicated vaginal delivery. You end up having a very long first phase of labor, are getting very fatigued, and are starting to feel overwhelmed by the pain and lack of dilation progress despite staying moving, changing positions, and using the labor tub. In this situation, you may need to discuss with your medical team what interventions may assist with pain management to allow you to rest so that you have energy to push and achieve your overall goal of a vaginal delivery.
To clarify, I don’t believe that there are births that are superior to others. Whether it is vaginal or abdominal, medicated or unmedicated, no one birth is better or more legitimate than another. The hierarchy that I am referring to is reserved exclusively for your preferences and priorities. There are so many options available to you that can be started low and slow, reduced, or completely stopped if they are not working well for you or your baby. If you are unsure about certain interventions and early newborn care decisions, Evidence-Based Birth is a phenomenal free resource for you and your partner to educate yourselves in advance:
https://evidencebasedbirth.com/signature-article-directory/ (they also have a podcast if you prefer listening vs reading).
In pelvic floor physical therapy birth prep sessions, we provide education on the first and second stages of labor by helping you understand the physiologic process of birth, your pelvic floor anatomy, stretches and positions to help with labor progress, and how to effectively push to reduce your risk of severe perineal tearing. Our goal is that you go into birth with the tools you need to make empowered decisions to improve your outcome. Let us know if you would like a free consultation on what our birth prep package includes!





